Growing up, this was just another holiday to me. I always knew that it was a holiday to remember the people that died that had served in our country’s armed forces. Although to me, it was a sign that school was almost out and that summer was right around the corner. Red, White, and Blue, family gatherings, grilling, and picnics. That was how I used to think of Memorial Day as a child.
As I became older, it started to mean a whole lot more. Both of my grandfathers fought in the war and made it back home safely. Have you ever stopped to think what it would be like to fight in a war? I can’t even imagine it really. I do think that those who fight are the most brave individuals. I’m sure they have life changing and unforgettable memories. Some chose to speak about it, some do not. I never really heard any graphic or detailed stories from either of my grandfathers, but I know both had faith and were grateful that they returned home. Not all that fight are that lucky to make it back home.
Many people will walk through cemeteries and attend memorial day services over Memorial Day weekend. I plan on attending one myself. There will be American flags placed on the graves of our veterans. When I was younger, I would attend one of these ceremonies near my house, then for many years I stopped going. The last few years it became a tradition that I would go again to these ceremonies with my dad and grandpap. My grandpap is no longer with us, but as I was older, I was truly honored to be sitting next to a veteran. Every Memorial Day now, I look back at photos and a video of the last year when I spent the holiday with my grandpap by my side. I get tears in my eyes. One for being blessed that both of my grandfathers made it home, and how I was lucky enough to know them and have them in my life for so many years. Another reason, is watching the tribute and hearing the veterans play songs and shoot the guns in honor of those gone, hearing the shells hit the ground gives me chills every time. Also, I think back to seeing both of the flags that my grandfathers had, and I remember seeing them when they both passed away. That is when I think it hit me the hardest. These two men were beyond wonderful and great in my eyes. I don’t have enough words to explain how much they both meant to me and how they both added such special meaning to my life. Looking at those flags, brings their greatness to a whole other level.
We need to remember those that fought for our freedom. Many leave to fight and protect us and many don’t return home. It’s a true sacrifice on their end. In today’s world, we have a lot of problems. It is important to always keep in mind that people risked and sacrificed their lives for us, so we could have freedom. Make sure when you are celebrating this weekend, have fun, be thankful for our freedom, and remember the real meaning of the holiday.
Mother’s Day Gift Ideas
Mother’s Day weekend is almost here! The older I get, the more I appreciate my mom each day. She is my best friend, and is always there for me. We don’t always see things the same way, but she is always there when I need someone to talk to or need a shoulder to cry on. Life changes, and there are many challenges. My mother has always been there to try and help glue the broken pieces together.
I can’t even find the right words right now to explain what I want to say about my mom. She has made holidays, birthdays, and special occasions memorable for our family. She keeps traditions alive as best as she can. She is continuously trying to always make things right and perfect, to keep everyone happy. She has a heart of gold and loves unconditionally. I hope one day that I will be fortunate enough to have children and be a mother. I can only hope that I will come close to being a wonderful mother, like the one I have!
I know many women who have been blessed for awhile now, and many recently, that have found out that they are pregnant. I wish you the best! As years pass by, I’ve seen how motherhood is not always delightful. One day, I want to be able have the feeling that everyone says, that they never knew they could love someone so much before meeting them. To those of you that are lucky enough to have the gift of being a mother, make sure to cherish it!
Here are a few Mother’s Day gift ideas:
Going Out to Dinner
A New Outfit
New Set of Pajamas
I saw some of these items and thought that they would be cute personal touches as well! What are some of your Mother’s Day ideas, and what are your plans for Mother’s Day?
(My mom and I) (The “Best” Mothers and “hopefully” Mothers in the Future)
Happy April! Easter is on its Way…
Hello everyone! I hope you are enjoying Spring and the beautiful weather that we have had this weekend! The warmth and sunshine motivates me to begin looking at gardening and patio essentials! I’m already on the lookout for beautiful flowers and plants! This weekend I went into the shed and pulled out at two chairs and a mini table, because I couldn’t wait to sit outside and soak up some sun and read.
I can’t believe that Easter will be here this weekend already! I’m getting excited to dress up for the holiday! Also, warmer weather means less bulky apparel. Dresses, skirts, sandals, tees…a lighter and brighter wardrobe ahead!
This week I plan on baking Easter sugar cookies and making a dessert or two. One tradition that I am looking forward to is eating ham pie! This tradition has been in my family for years. An old tradition that I miss, that was always a must as a child growing up, was dying eggs and having our Easter morning Easter egg hunt. I’m looking forward to going to Sunday mass with my family and spending time with them. Life has been so busy, no one seems to have time to enjoy a few hours together at the same time. What are some of your Easter traditions?
I am going to share a few Easter items that I thought were really cute for the holiday. There have been multiple recipes for Spring/Easter that I have found as well. If I have some time this week to try them out, I will share them with you as well! Enjoy the beautiful weather and have fun getting ready for Easter this week!
One of my favorite designs and trends right now is any item that is white and grey marble. I am really liking a variety of these products. Everything and anything from jewelry, paper products, soaps, home decor, etc. If there is a hint of copper or gold added within the marble, than that is an added bonus for me! My eyes are immediately attracted and I seem to gravitate over to the product when I spot this marble pattern. Here are a few marble items that I currently have my eye on.
The first month of the new year is coming to an end and Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Some of us love it, some hate it, and for others it’s just another ordinary day. Whether you are filled with love and romance, or if you dread it and cry over it, there is a way to get through the day still feeling loved. The solution to this issue all comes down to you!
Recently, I keep asking myself, “what would make me a happier person?” I came across an article on Lifehack that caught my eye. It was titled, “People Keep Searching for the Recipe to Happiness, but the Answer Lies in Loving Yourself More,” so it caught my eye and I decided to read their suggestions. The title of this article has such a powerful meaning. I did like a few of their suggestions. It’s not always as easy as it sounds to come up with realistic solutions that will make us happier. Sometimes, we critique ourselves so much that we lose a sense of who we are, what makes us happy, and what we need to do to recognize and give ourselves self love.
(Here is a link to the article that I was writing about above.)
This Valentine’s Day, whether you have plans or not, take some time and focus on you. It doesn’t have to be on the exact day of the holiday, try for a few days, or weeks if need be, and do things that make you feel good about yourself and make you want to smile.
On a fun note, “Red or Pink?,” which color do you prefer for this holiday? I myself am more of a red person. Lately, when I’m out and about and see all the red and pink, plus hearts all over the place decorated for the holiday, I’ll admit, it makes me smile because this can be such a fun holiday!
Here are a few fun items that I came across that I thought tie into Valentine’s Day! Let me know how you plan on enjoying Valentine’s Day in the next few weeks!
January 24th-National Compliment & Peanut Butter Day
Here are two wonderful things: a compliment and peanut butter! Today, try to give someone a compliment. You will make someone’s day by making them feel good and it will help you to feel happy about being kind!
One of my favorite ways to eat peanut butter would be by eating Reese’s peanut butter cups and enjoying some peanut butter fudge! Tell me what you love that has peanut butter in it.
Happy National Compliment & Peanut Butter Day!
Here are some compliments for you!
Sharing some peanut butter love!
January 21-National Hugging Day
Somedays everyone can use a hug…
Happy National Hug Day!